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  • Writer's pictureBrenden OSullivan

How Do I Make a Will: A Step-by-Step Guide

Creating a will is an essential part of life planning, ensuring that your assets are distributed according to your wishes and that your loved ones are provided for after you are gone. Whether you have experienced significant life changes such as buying property, getting married or divorced, having children, or entering retirement, having a will in place is crucial. This guide will walk you through the step-by-step process of making a will, helping you understand the importance of this document and the key steps involved.

Key Takeaways

  • A will ensures your wishes are respected and your loved ones are provided for after your death.

  • Choosing the right executor is crucial for the smooth execution of your will.

  • Clearly listing your assets and beneficiaries helps avoid disputes and confusion.

  • Understanding the legal requirements for a valid will is essential to ensure its enforceability.

  • Regularly updating your will is important, especially after significant life changes.

Understanding the Importance of a Will

Writing a will can be uncomfortable, requiring you to reflect closely and clinically upon your own mortality and the value of your possessions after you’re gone. Once it’s complete, though, a will is one of the most important documents you will ever create. Wills ensure your last wishes are respected in your absence.

Choosing Your Executors

Role and Responsibilities of an Executor

Executors are the people who will be responsible for carrying out your wishes and for sorting out the estate. They will have to collect together all the assets of the estate, deal with all the paperwork, and pay all the debts, taxes, funeral, and administration costs out of money in the estate. They will also need to pay out the gifts and transfer any property to beneficiaries.

Who Can Be an Executor?

You can choose a partner, close friend, a solicitor, another professional such as an accountant, or perhaps a charity. There is no restriction on Executors also being beneficiaries from your Will. It is common to appoint 2, but up to 4 executors can take on responsibility for administering the will after a death. The people most commonly appointed as executors are:

  • Relatives or friends

  • Solicitors or accountants

  • Banks

  • The Public Trustee or in some cases the Official Solicitor if there is no one else willing and able to act

How to Choose the Right Executor

It is important to choose executors with considerable care since their job involves a great deal of work and responsibility. You should always approach anyone you are thinking of appointing as an executor to see if they will agree to take on the responsibility. If someone is appointed who is not willing to be an executor, they have a right to refuse. If an executor dies, any other surviving executor(s) can deal with the estate. If there are no surviving executors, legal advice should be sought.

Listing Your Assets and Beneficiaries

Identifying Your Assets

Organising and inventorying your assets is a crucial step in creating your will. Assets include any possessions clearly belonging to you or titled in your name, such as personal belongings, pets, property, and cash. Clearly describe each asset to avoid any confusion when the executor transfers it to the named beneficiary. Be aware that some assets, like trusts or investment accounts, may not be considered part of your simple assets and pass directly to the beneficiaries named on those accounts.

Deciding on Beneficiaries

For each asset, name a beneficiary—the person, profit or non-profit organisation, or other entity to receive your asset(s) once you pass. You can choose one or many beneficiaries. If there is anyone who should not receive the asset in question, be sure to name them as well. Additionally, write a residuary clause to cover everything not left to a specific beneficiary or anything forgotten when you wrote the assets section of the will.

Specific Gifts and Bequests

When deciding on specific gifts and bequests, consider the following:

  • An estimation of the value of your estate, including all your assets and liabilities.

  • Who you would like to appoint as your Executors.

  • If you have children, who you would like to appoint as their guardians.

  • Any specific gifts or money you would like to leave to anyone.

  • Who you would like to benefit from your will and in what proportions.

  • Any money you would like to leave to charity.

Writing Your Will

Creating a will might sound daunting, but if you have a straightforward estate, it’s surprisingly easy. You should have some familiarity with legal language before attempting to write a will. If you use a DIY kit or template, much of this will have already been done for you. If you choose to write it entirely yourself, brush up on any legal requirements of your state and country before you do anything else. Each state and country may have different laws surrounding wills and estates.

Using a DIY Will Kit

A DIY will kit can be a cost-effective way to create your will. These kits provide templates and instructions, making the process more straightforward. However, it’s crucial to ensure that the kit complies with the legal requirements of your jurisdiction.

Hiring a Solicitor

While the obvious—and most expensive—option is to visit a solicitor, this can be beneficial if you have a complex estate. A solicitor can provide tailored advice and ensure that your will is legally sound. Professional help can be invaluable in avoiding potential pitfalls.

Legal Requirements for a Valid Will

To ensure your will is valid, it must meet certain legal criteria. This typically includes being written by someone of sound mind, being signed in the presence of witnesses, and clearly stating your intentions. Make sure to check the specific requirements for your location.

Signing and Storing Your Will

Witnessing Requirements

To ensure your will is legally valid, you must sign it in the presence of two witnesses. These witnesses cannot be beneficiaries of your will. Check your local laws for any additional requirements, such as notarisation.

Where to Store Your Will

Once signed, store your will in a safe place. You can keep it at home, in a safe deposit box, or with your solicitor. Inform your executor of its location to avoid any issues later.

Updating Your Will

Revisit and update your will whenever you experience significant life changes, such as marriage, divorce, or the birth of a child. Regular updates ensure your will reflects your current wishes and circumstances.

Special Considerations

When you have minor children, it's crucial to appoint a guardian in your will. This person will be responsible for their care if something happens to you. Choosing the right guardian ensures your children are cared for according to your wishes. Consider the following when selecting a guardian:

  • Their relationship with your children

  • Their values and parenting style

  • Their ability to take on the responsibility

Setting up a trust can be an effective way to manage your estate and provide for your beneficiaries. Trusts can help protect your assets, reduce tax liabilities, and ensure that your wishes are followed. There are different types of trusts to consider:

  1. Revocable Trusts: Can be altered or revoked during your lifetime.

  2. Irrevocable Trusts: Cannot be changed once established, offering more tax benefits.

  3. Testamentary Trusts: Created through your will and activated upon your death.

Including charitable donations in your will is a way to leave a lasting legacy. You can specify a fixed amount, a percentage of your estate, or particular assets to be donated to your chosen charities. This not only supports causes you care about but can also provide tax benefits for your estate.

When planning your estate, it's crucial to consider various factors that may impact your decisions. At East Sussex Wills, we offer expert advice and personalised services to ensure your estate planning is comprehensive and tailored to your needs. For more information or to schedule an appointment, please visit our website.


Creating a will is a crucial step in ensuring that your wishes are respected and your loved ones are provided for after your passing. While the process may seem daunting at first, following a structured, step-by-step guide can simplify the task significantly. Whether you choose to draught your will with the help of a professional or opt for a DIY approach, the key is to ensure that all legal requirements are met and that your document is clear and comprehensive. Remember, a well-prepared will not only provides peace of mind but also helps to prevent potential legal and financial complications for your family in the future. Take the time to plan carefully, seek advice if needed, and make sure your will is updated as your circumstances change.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why is it important to have a will?

A will ensures that your assets are distributed according to your wishes after your death. Without a will, the law will decide how your estate is divided, which may not align with your preferences.

Can I write my own will?

Yes, you can write your own will using a DIY will kit or template. However, it is important to ensure that it meets all legal requirements to be considered valid.

Who can be an executor of my will?

An executor can be anyone you trust, such as a family member or friend. It is important to choose someone who is responsible and capable of managing your estate.

What happens if I don't have a will?

If you die without a will, your estate will be distributed according to the laws of intestacy. This may result in your assets being divided in a way that you would not have chosen.

How often should I update my will?

You should review and update your will whenever there is a significant change in your life, such as marriage, divorce, the birth of a child, or acquiring new assets.

Where should I store my will?

Your will should be stored in a safe place where it can be easily found after your death. You may choose to keep it with your solicitor, in a safe deposit box, or in a secure location at home.



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